A Guide for our Men from the Bi Men Network!
Butt plugs are an ideal sex toy for the vast majority of our bisexual, bi-curious and gay adult male members and even some or your wives and girlfriends.
If you are new to butt plugs - just like with a tricycle as a child - you want to start with a training version. Do not run out - CLICK BELOW and buy some huge butt plug and expect to have fun with it or for your partner/s to have fun with it. As with most all things in life - you learn to do by doing - and you learn to take more incrementally - over time..
A typical butt plug is a sex toy designed to be inserted in the anus and rectum for sexual pleasure. Butt plugs come in all shapes and sizes - and some are ribbed for more pleasure - some are geared to try to get at and stimulate a man's prostate gland - and some vibrate. Click below to see the good fairly-priced selection at our Bi Men Sex Chop.
In some ways, they are similar to dildos but they tend to be shorter, and to have a flared end to prevent the device from being lost inside the rectum. Most dildos lack a flared end, and thus it is ill-advised to use such dildos anally, since they may get stuck, requiring medical extraction. No one wants to end up in the ER having a dildo much less a coke bottle extracted!
Many if not most of our Bi Men members if they will give it a chance will come to love the added pleasure that a butt plug can in time bring into your sexual pleasures - even alone - and often if not always with others.
Start with a lower priced - smaller - trainer butt plug or buy two or three - but move up the FOOD CHAIN and do not start out with some huge MR. BIG butt plug and thereby risk injury or discomfort.
If you order a butt plug - play with your ass with your fingers or have your partner or partners do so to get you ready for it. Be sure the fingers in question are well lubed for the penetration and be sure nails are well-trimmed as well! SLOWLY is the ticket - and take your time to get used to this new and different form of very intense sexual pleasure.
When your butt plug or plugs do arrive - your sphincter muscle will hold the plug in place by its waist, preventing the plug from slipping out unintentionally. As with most all sex toys - moderation is the key. If you overuse your butt plug you can lose your control of your asshole - and/'or if you like to get fucked - you will turn into the Grand Canyon and no longer be your olde sexy fuckable self! Also if you are in pain or experience discomfort ease up - and also be sure you have plenty of lubricant.
As with other activities involving anal penetration, such as anal sex, large amounts of sexual lubricant and a slow gentle approach are often needed to insert or remove a butt plug. GENTLY - GENTLY. You will soon be off your tricycles and on to a ten speed racing bike butt plug soon enough! Half the fun is getting there!
Butt plugs are often used covered by condoms for hygiene, and to allow for the easy disposal of any feces with which they may come into contact. Butt plugs should not be shared with other people so if you think your partner/s will want to try this get one for each of them.
Butt plugs come in a variety of colors, shapes, sizes, and textures. Some are designed to look like penises, while some are ribbed or wavy. The majority have a thin tip which is wider in the middle, a notch to hold it in place once it is inserted, and a flared base to prevent complete insertion into the rectum. Some plugs are designed (long, flexible and curved) to penetrate up to the sigmoid colon..
Butt plugs are made of a variety of materials, the most common being latex. Other materials used include silicone, neoprene, wood, metal, glass, stone, and many other materials. Silicone is a particularly good material, as it can be disinfected in boiling water. Be sure to buy a silicone butt plug if you think you will be tempted to share with others and boil between sessions with other sex partners.
There are butt plugs that "ejaculate" by squirting water or other viscous fluids into the rectum. There are also vibrating butt plugs, and butt plugs that can inflate and expand. Some butt plugs are specifically designed for men and stimulate the prostate and our BI Men members should really enjoy those butt plugs. Other butt plugs are manufactured with long hair or simulated animal tails attached to the base for use in human pony play or other animal fantasy role play. Butt plugs are also now available that do incorporate electro-stimulation. Some butt plugs have vibrator functions as well. Start with your tricycle as you have the rest of your life to get up to that ten speed racing bike. But knowing most of the horn dogs here it will be soon! .
Butt plugs can be moved in or out for your sexual pleasure; for this type of activity ribbed butt plugs can increase pleasure. They can also be worn continuously (or be lockable) for long periods of time.
As noted, EVERYTHING in MODERATION.
Do not over use your butt plug. But the butt plug is ideal for many men - you can enjoy one alone while you masturbate. You can insert one in yourself while you suck cock or eat pussy or fuck guys or gals or both! Don't leave home without one! Go for the intense pleasure of butt plugs soon! CLICK BELOW to visit our Sex Shoppe!
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Hugs & Best Wishes,
Stewart ("Mac") McCloud
Founder and Moderator
The BI MEN NETWORK
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